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i am coming from LI or NYC

TANGO- CACTUS NY

FROM MANHATTAN:
East Side
East River Drive North to Willis Avenue Bridge onto Major Deegan North which becomes New York State Thruway. Take EXIT 8 onto Route 287 (Cross Westchester Expressway). Leave Route 287 at EXIT 4 (Route 100 A Hartsdale). Make a right off the exit. Left at second traffic light
(left when you're on the overpass thingy). That puts you on Rt 119 towards White Plains. Go straight on 119 until you see signs for the Bronx River Parkway.. Get onto the Bronx River Parkway North. Stay on the Bronx River Parkway North for about 5 minutes, and you should see the dam in front of you... it's kinda hard to miss... we'll be in the parking lot at the bottom of the dam, in the park.
West Side
West Side Highway North onto Henry Hudson Parkway North - Saw Mill River Parkway to Cross Westchester Expressway Route 287 East - proceed as above.

Also, You can take Bronx river straight up from Cross Bronx or Bruckner, It is the easiest way but there is a lane closed for construction in Yonkers/ Scarsdale and traffic crawls through there.