Here's what I do with the cars...
My car defaults to manual mode, because of the gate design, and I shift it manually 99% of the time. It does not automatically downshift and it does not have a rev limiter, unlike the transmission you will have on your car. Also the shift time is significantly faster, and the matching of rpm's between gears more important.<p>When I drive the 2.8QTip, I usually shift in the main auto gate. Three, Four, and Drive are the settings I use with that gear selector. Sometimes I'll use second in auto mode on an icy morning drive. I generally prefer manual transmissions, and I'd rather the computer have intelligent input from the shift selector than have no intelligent input at all. Remember that the computer, as smart as it is, cannot see the road, nor the minivan swerving in front of you, nor the strange conditions ahead, nor listen to the weather forcast on the radio. Hence, when possible you can narrow the choices available by using the gear selector, narrowing the chance that your transmission will make a patently wrong gear choice. As with a manual transmission, however, sometimes the input from the driver is more faulty than helpful -- make no mistake about it, I'm guilty of flawed input with automatics, Tiptronic, manuals, etc. However, when in doubt, I leave it in "D", shifting into neutral at stoplights, and using the handbrake properly when the rear wheels need locking during stopped or near-stopped situations. There is surprisingly little difference between the Tip and Manual versions of the A4 which, in my opinion, is a blessing not to be overlooked.<p>Cameron